"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Holy God - I'm a shallow fake

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i just read this post

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=23151

and i realised i've been so busy working on my ******d projections without doing anything for my inner self. of course seen as i type this post on a sat night :rolleyes:

to the actual DJs out there, and those on the actual right path, can u plz suggest some ideas, some things for me to actually do, as opposed to sitting on my ass on the computer all day long

i'm a uni student (doing law and needing a lot of study), living at home, and somewhat pov (but in publiic i dont look it lol, just living in a small home)

i'm first gonna find myself an actual steady part-time job

ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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go out and jog, chill out in places where there's people.
sit on a bench in the park, in the mall or whatever. by the way what is POV?
 
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I think it means he's short on cash.

Go sign up for a gym, it will make you feel worlds better.
 
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Gym definatelly does help with boosting confidence. Another thing is, if you live on campus, instead of sitting in front of PC all the time ask your friends what they're up to. Usually at least some of them will be doing something other than a lan party, and you can hang out with them. Hanging out with a lot of people often helps a lot with the inner self too. Even if you're not on campus you can still call your friends cell phone and ask them if they're up to anything.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i don't live on campus and i do have a gym membership
my problem is i'm winding up with too much time on my bloody hands, which is why i'm always on the computer
do any other DJs in a similar situation do this kinda stuff?
what do you guys do in ur free time?
 
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