"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Holy God - I'm a shallow fake

evolvingnerd

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i just read this post

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=23151

and i realised i've been so busy working on my ******d projections without doing anything for my inner self. of course seen as i type this post on a sat night :rolleyes:

to the actual DJs out there, and those on the actual right path, can u plz suggest some ideas, some things for me to actually do, as opposed to sitting on my ass on the computer all day long

i'm a uni student (doing law and needing a lot of study), living at home, and somewhat pov (but in publiic i dont look it lol, just living in a small home)

i'm first gonna find myself an actual steady part-time job

ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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joecollapoppa

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go out and jog, chill out in places where there's people.
sit on a bench in the park, in the mall or whatever. by the way what is POV?
 

Porky

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I think it means he's short on cash.

Go sign up for a gym, it will make you feel worlds better.
 

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Gym definatelly does help with boosting confidence. Another thing is, if you live on campus, instead of sitting in front of PC all the time ask your friends what they're up to. Usually at least some of them will be doing something other than a lan party, and you can hang out with them. Hanging out with a lot of people often helps a lot with the inner self too. Even if you're not on campus you can still call your friends cell phone and ask them if they're up to anything.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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evolvingnerd

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i don't live on campus and i do have a gym membership
my problem is i'm winding up with too much time on my bloody hands, which is why i'm always on the computer
do any other DJs in a similar situation do this kinda stuff?
what do you guys do in ur free time?
 
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