Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Original DJ back on the block. Look forward to seeing old faces and helping new ones as needed.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Holy cow, have I been gone a while!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
how long have u been gone??
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Two years.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Intel,
1st - Don't be like everyone else. So don't get stupid drunk. A buzz is cool but too much is going to mess with your game.
2nd - Be the confident one. Don't find yourself sitting by yourself, wishing you were the guy talking to the hot girl.
3rd - Take matters into your own hands. Don't be afraid to cold approach girls. By the sound of it, there will be plenty. Seek out a crowd of girls and hone in on the one you want and go for it.
4th - Be yourself!
1st - Don't be like everyone else. So don't get stupid drunk. A buzz is cool but too much is going to mess with your game.
2nd - Be the confident one. Don't find yourself sitting by yourself, wishing you were the guy talking to the hot girl.
3rd - Take matters into your own hands. Don't be afraid to cold approach girls. By the sound of it, there will be plenty. Seek out a crowd of girls and hone in on the one you want and go for it.
4th - Be yourself!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
I didn't quite understand what you said? Did you say you are missing a finger and it's hold you back?
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
It shouldn't. How did Ray Charles pick up chicks being blind?
Agent Zero
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How is Drex doing?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Wish I knew. Last I spoke to him he was involved with a married woman. It's been nearly 3 years since I spoke to him. How did you know him?Agent Zero said:
Agent Zero
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I didn't know him, just remembered him from the forums.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
You must of gone by a different name. That was like 3 years ago.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Desdinova,
I wouldn't have it any other way.
I've been doing fine, new times, new girls.
I wouldn't have it any other way.
I've been doing fine, new times, new girls.