Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Original DJ back on the block. Look forward to seeing old faces and helping new ones as needed.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Holy cow, have I been gone a while!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
how long have u been gone??
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Two years.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Intel,
1st - Don't be like everyone else. So don't get stupid drunk. A buzz is cool but too much is going to mess with your game.
2nd - Be the confident one. Don't find yourself sitting by yourself, wishing you were the guy talking to the hot girl.
3rd - Take matters into your own hands. Don't be afraid to cold approach girls. By the sound of it, there will be plenty. Seek out a crowd of girls and hone in on the one you want and go for it.
4th - Be yourself!
1st - Don't be like everyone else. So don't get stupid drunk. A buzz is cool but too much is going to mess with your game.
2nd - Be the confident one. Don't find yourself sitting by yourself, wishing you were the guy talking to the hot girl.
3rd - Take matters into your own hands. Don't be afraid to cold approach girls. By the sound of it, there will be plenty. Seek out a crowd of girls and hone in on the one you want and go for it.
4th - Be yourself!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
I didn't quite understand what you said? Did you say you are missing a finger and it's hold you back?
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
It shouldn't. How did Ray Charles pick up chicks being blind?
Agent Zero
Don Juan
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- Feb 23, 2007
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How is Drex doing?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Wish I knew. Last I spoke to him he was involved with a married woman. It's been nearly 3 years since I spoke to him. How did you know him?Agent Zero said:
Agent Zero
Don Juan
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I didn't know him, just remembered him from the forums.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
You must of gone by a different name. That was like 3 years ago.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Desdinova,
I wouldn't have it any other way.
I've been doing fine, new times, new girls.
I wouldn't have it any other way.
I've been doing fine, new times, new girls.