Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Original DJ back on the block. Look forward to seeing old faces and helping new ones as needed.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Holy cow, have I been gone a while!
- Thread starter Matt ala Casanova
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
how long have u been gone??
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Two years.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Intel,
1st - Don't be like everyone else. So don't get stupid drunk. A buzz is cool but too much is going to mess with your game.
2nd - Be the confident one. Don't find yourself sitting by yourself, wishing you were the guy talking to the hot girl.
3rd - Take matters into your own hands. Don't be afraid to cold approach girls. By the sound of it, there will be plenty. Seek out a crowd of girls and hone in on the one you want and go for it.
4th - Be yourself!
1st - Don't be like everyone else. So don't get stupid drunk. A buzz is cool but too much is going to mess with your game.
2nd - Be the confident one. Don't find yourself sitting by yourself, wishing you were the guy talking to the hot girl.
3rd - Take matters into your own hands. Don't be afraid to cold approach girls. By the sound of it, there will be plenty. Seek out a crowd of girls and hone in on the one you want and go for it.
4th - Be yourself!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
I didn't quite understand what you said? Did you say you are missing a finger and it's hold you back?
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
It shouldn't. How did Ray Charles pick up chicks being blind?
Agent Zero
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How is Drex doing?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Wish I knew. Last I spoke to him he was involved with a married woman. It's been nearly 3 years since I spoke to him. How did you know him?Agent Zero said:
Agent Zero
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I didn't know him, just remembered him from the forums.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
You must of gone by a different name. That was like 3 years ago.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Desdinova,
I wouldn't have it any other way.
I've been doing fine, new times, new girls.
I wouldn't have it any other way.
I've been doing fine, new times, new girls.