Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Original DJ back on the block. Look forward to seeing old faces and helping new ones as needed.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Holy cow, have I been gone a while!
- Thread starter Matt ala Casanova
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
how long have u been gone??
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Two years.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Intel,
1st - Don't be like everyone else. So don't get stupid drunk. A buzz is cool but too much is going to mess with your game.
2nd - Be the confident one. Don't find yourself sitting by yourself, wishing you were the guy talking to the hot girl.
3rd - Take matters into your own hands. Don't be afraid to cold approach girls. By the sound of it, there will be plenty. Seek out a crowd of girls and hone in on the one you want and go for it.
4th - Be yourself!
1st - Don't be like everyone else. So don't get stupid drunk. A buzz is cool but too much is going to mess with your game.
2nd - Be the confident one. Don't find yourself sitting by yourself, wishing you were the guy talking to the hot girl.
3rd - Take matters into your own hands. Don't be afraid to cold approach girls. By the sound of it, there will be plenty. Seek out a crowd of girls and hone in on the one you want and go for it.
4th - Be yourself!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
I didn't quite understand what you said? Did you say you are missing a finger and it's hold you back?
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
It shouldn't. How did Ray Charles pick up chicks being blind?
Agent Zero
Don Juan
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How is Drex doing?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Wish I knew. Last I spoke to him he was involved with a married woman. It's been nearly 3 years since I spoke to him. How did you know him?Agent Zero said:
Agent Zero
Don Juan
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I didn't know him, just remembered him from the forums.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
You must of gone by a different name. That was like 3 years ago.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Desdinova,
I wouldn't have it any other way.
I've been doing fine, new times, new girls.
I wouldn't have it any other way.
I've been doing fine, new times, new girls.