"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hold out your hand

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Tried, Tested and True.

If you're sitting next to a girl, and if there is any one way to safely test interest, if you have any confusion at all, or you want to use this to get the ball rolling, hold out your hand just above hers.

Roll it from there. Admire how soft her hands are, bust on her for liking you, whatever you do best, go!

-Very adaptable to standing, dancing, driving, etc.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So True! I use it all the time!

For a fun variation, take her hand and walk briskly thru the crowd pretending the two of you are escaping the paparazzi!

It'll make her laugh like crazy and it'll draw her closer into your whimsical reality. :)
 

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hold out your hand for a handshake?
Yes! That is one variation!

So True! I use it all the time!

For a fun variation, take her hand and walk briskly thru the crowd pretending the two of you are escaping the paparazzi!

It'll make her laugh like crazy and it'll draw her closer into your whimsical reality.
Nice! Interesting way of doing it.

More variations!
 
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Tried, Tested and True.

If you're sitting next to a girl, and if there is any one way to safely test interest, if you have any confusion at all, or you want to use this to get the ball rolling, hold out your hand just above hers.

Roll it from there. Admire how soft her hands are, bust on her for liking you, whatever you do best, go!

-Very adaptable to standing, dancing, driving, etc.
you sound like the kind of guy that stalks and beats women.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stormwatch13 said:
you sound like the kind of guy that stalks and beats women.
You sound like a person that has completely no disregard for yourself, seeing as you treat people such as you do
 

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What is even better is if you grab one of her honkers and make whooping sounds as you squeeze it. Then you twist it and say, "Game over. Lets go to my place!" That tactic works like a charm. Especially promising at large family gatherings. Try it :up:
 

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This tip is great. I use it sometimes and if the girl is interested it amplifies the connection.
 
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