"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tried, Tested and True.

If you're sitting next to a girl, and if there is any one way to safely test interest, if you have any confusion at all, or you want to use this to get the ball rolling, hold out your hand just above hers.

Roll it from there. Admire how soft her hands are, bust on her for liking you, whatever you do best, go!

-Very adaptable to standing, dancing, driving, etc.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So True! I use it all the time!

For a fun variation, take her hand and walk briskly thru the crowd pretending the two of you are escaping the paparazzi!

It'll make her laugh like crazy and it'll draw her closer into your whimsical reality. :)
 

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hold out your hand for a handshake?
Yes! That is one variation!

So True! I use it all the time!

For a fun variation, take her hand and walk briskly thru the crowd pretending the two of you are escaping the paparazzi!

It'll make her laugh like crazy and it'll draw her closer into your whimsical reality.
Nice! Interesting way of doing it.

More variations!
 
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Tried, Tested and True.

If you're sitting next to a girl, and if there is any one way to safely test interest, if you have any confusion at all, or you want to use this to get the ball rolling, hold out your hand just above hers.

Roll it from there. Admire how soft her hands are, bust on her for liking you, whatever you do best, go!

-Very adaptable to standing, dancing, driving, etc.
you sound like the kind of guy that stalks and beats women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stormwatch13 said:
you sound like the kind of guy that stalks and beats women.
You sound like a person that has completely no disregard for yourself, seeing as you treat people such as you do
 

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What is even better is if you grab one of her honkers and make whooping sounds as you squeeze it. Then you twist it and say, "Game over. Lets go to my place!" That tactic works like a charm. Especially promising at large family gatherings. Try it :up:
 

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This tip is great. I use it sometimes and if the girl is interested it amplifies the connection.
 
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