"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tried, Tested and True.

If you're sitting next to a girl, and if there is any one way to safely test interest, if you have any confusion at all, or you want to use this to get the ball rolling, hold out your hand just above hers.

Roll it from there. Admire how soft her hands are, bust on her for liking you, whatever you do best, go!

-Very adaptable to standing, dancing, driving, etc.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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So True! I use it all the time!

For a fun variation, take her hand and walk briskly thru the crowd pretending the two of you are escaping the paparazzi!

It'll make her laugh like crazy and it'll draw her closer into your whimsical reality. :)
 
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hold out your hand for a handshake?
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Yes! That is one variation!

So True! I use it all the time!

For a fun variation, take her hand and walk briskly thru the crowd pretending the two of you are escaping the paparazzi!

It'll make her laugh like crazy and it'll draw her closer into your whimsical reality.
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Nice! Interesting way of doing it.

More variations!
 
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Tried, Tested and True.

If you're sitting next to a girl, and if there is any one way to safely test interest, if you have any confusion at all, or you want to use this to get the ball rolling, hold out your hand just above hers.

Roll it from there. Admire how soft her hands are, bust on her for liking you, whatever you do best, go!

-Very adaptable to standing, dancing, driving, etc.
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you sound like the kind of guy that stalks and beats women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you sound like the kind of guy that stalks and beats women.
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You sound like a person that has completely no disregard for yourself, seeing as you treat people such as you do
 
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What is even better is if you grab one of her honkers and make whooping sounds as you squeeze it. Then you twist it and say, "Game over. Lets go to my place!" That tactic works like a charm. Especially promising at large family gatherings. Try it :up:
 
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This tip is great. I use it sometimes and if the girl is interested it amplifies the connection.
 
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