So i went into this starbucks wit a few of my buddies a week ago, and the girl behind the counter was really cute. She was lookin at me alot and ****, but we were in a rush and got out of there quick. Anyway tonight we went there today and wen i went up to order she was like smiling and stuff....idk if its cause she works there or w.e...anyway i was going up to try and talk to her but the line was long so i was gonna wait and the other girl workin there wo was like 21 and fat and gross helped me....crap lol. I wanna know, if i go back and try and game her what are some good things to say to the girl behind the counter?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hmmm.....
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
wow good one:box: ummm i think i can tell the difference between someone flirtatiously making eye contact and a greeter at wal mart....btw anyonethat shops at walmart is a fukking hick and/or a horrible person. Slave Labor. Petty Wages.
anyone with any real advice and not douchebaggedry responses would be great
anyone with any real advice and not douchebaggedry responses would be great
Ask a douchebag question.
Yeah, and starbucks just shouts class...
Sorry couldn't resist.
Seriously tho.
If she likes you (YET) is irrelevant.
So many dudes wonder "what does this mean?"
That is the wrong way to look at things.
The way you gotta think is "I like her. Now I am going to get her."
What you say to her (besides "I'd like a macchiato") should be what you say to any girl you pursue.
And for that my friend, you should go check the bible, the tips page and the archives.
JJ
Yeah, and starbucks just shouts class...
Sorry couldn't resist.
Seriously tho.
If she likes you (YET) is irrelevant.
So many dudes wonder "what does this mean?"
That is the wrong way to look at things.
The way you gotta think is "I like her. Now I am going to get her."
What you say to her (besides "I'd like a macchiato") should be what you say to any girl you pursue.
And for that my friend, you should go check the bible, the tips page and the archives.
JJ
ok thansks......i kno im not wondering if she likes me lol...i jus wanna know any special ways to approach the girl behind the counter. like weni orderd i wanted to start some small talk but there was a line behind me and my d-bag friends lik "haha talk to her dude" lol.....
starbucks is classier than walmart (not that i enjoy it lol)
starbucks is classier than walmart (not that i enjoy it lol)
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Sir Juanalot
Senior Don Juan
If her nametag says "Jane" say
"I'd like a large americano, and a Jane, to go"
"I'd like a large americano, and a Jane, to go"
Maybe not shouts, but.... well, yeah it does. Sure this sort of thing is relative, and a $50/plate restaurant is even more classy, but man its common knowledge that "preps" buy coffee from Starbucks. Granted, I live in AR so its not particularly hard to appear preppy here.Jay Jay said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
No one knows class like a 17-year-old, lol.