So i went into this starbucks wit a few of my buddies a week ago, and the girl behind the counter was really cute. She was lookin at me alot and ****, but we were in a rush and got out of there quick. Anyway tonight we went there today and wen i went up to order she was like smiling and stuff....idk if its cause she works there or w.e...anyway i was going up to try and talk to her but the line was long so i was gonna wait and the other girl workin there wo was like 21 and fat and gross helped me....crap lol. I wanna know, if i go back and try and game her what are some good things to say to the girl behind the counter?
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Hmmm.....
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
wow good one:box: ummm i think i can tell the difference between someone flirtatiously making eye contact and a greeter at wal mart....btw anyonethat shops at walmart is a fukking hick and/or a horrible person. Slave Labor. Petty Wages.
anyone with any real advice and not douchebaggedry responses would be great
anyone with any real advice and not douchebaggedry responses would be great
Ask a douchebag question.
Yeah, and starbucks just shouts class...
Sorry couldn't resist.
Seriously tho.
If she likes you (YET) is irrelevant.
So many dudes wonder "what does this mean?"
That is the wrong way to look at things.
The way you gotta think is "I like her. Now I am going to get her."
What you say to her (besides "I'd like a macchiato") should be what you say to any girl you pursue.
And for that my friend, you should go check the bible, the tips page and the archives.
JJ
Yeah, and starbucks just shouts class...
Sorry couldn't resist.
Seriously tho.
If she likes you (YET) is irrelevant.
So many dudes wonder "what does this mean?"
That is the wrong way to look at things.
The way you gotta think is "I like her. Now I am going to get her."
What you say to her (besides "I'd like a macchiato") should be what you say to any girl you pursue.
And for that my friend, you should go check the bible, the tips page and the archives.
JJ
ok thansks......i kno im not wondering if she likes me lol...i jus wanna know any special ways to approach the girl behind the counter. like weni orderd i wanted to start some small talk but there was a line behind me and my d-bag friends lik "haha talk to her dude" lol.....
starbucks is classier than walmart (not that i enjoy it lol)
starbucks is classier than walmart (not that i enjoy it lol)
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Sir Juanalot
Senior Don Juan
If her nametag says "Jane" say
"I'd like a large americano, and a Jane, to go"
"I'd like a large americano, and a Jane, to go"
Maybe not shouts, but.... well, yeah it does. Sure this sort of thing is relative, and a $50/plate restaurant is even more classy, but man its common knowledge that "preps" buy coffee from Starbucks. Granted, I live in AR so its not particularly hard to appear preppy here.Jay Jay said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
No one knows class like a 17-year-old, lol.