So i went into this starbucks wit a few of my buddies a week ago, and the girl behind the counter was really cute. She was lookin at me alot and ****, but we were in a rush and got out of there quick. Anyway tonight we went there today and wen i went up to order she was like smiling and stuff....idk if its cause she works there or w.e...anyway i was going up to try and talk to her but the line was long so i was gonna wait and the other girl workin there wo was like 21 and fat and gross helped me....crap lol. I wanna know, if i go back and try and game her what are some good things to say to the girl behind the counter?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hmmm.....
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
wow good one:box: ummm i think i can tell the difference between someone flirtatiously making eye contact and a greeter at wal mart....btw anyonethat shops at walmart is a fukking hick and/or a horrible person. Slave Labor. Petty Wages.
anyone with any real advice and not douchebaggedry responses would be great
anyone with any real advice and not douchebaggedry responses would be great
Ask a douchebag question.
Yeah, and starbucks just shouts class...
Sorry couldn't resist.
Seriously tho.
If she likes you (YET) is irrelevant.
So many dudes wonder "what does this mean?"
That is the wrong way to look at things.
The way you gotta think is "I like her. Now I am going to get her."
What you say to her (besides "I'd like a macchiato") should be what you say to any girl you pursue.
And for that my friend, you should go check the bible, the tips page and the archives.
JJ
Yeah, and starbucks just shouts class...
Sorry couldn't resist.
Seriously tho.
If she likes you (YET) is irrelevant.
So many dudes wonder "what does this mean?"
That is the wrong way to look at things.
The way you gotta think is "I like her. Now I am going to get her."
What you say to her (besides "I'd like a macchiato") should be what you say to any girl you pursue.
And for that my friend, you should go check the bible, the tips page and the archives.
JJ
ok thansks......i kno im not wondering if she likes me lol...i jus wanna know any special ways to approach the girl behind the counter. like weni orderd i wanted to start some small talk but there was a line behind me and my d-bag friends lik "haha talk to her dude" lol.....
starbucks is classier than walmart (not that i enjoy it lol)
starbucks is classier than walmart (not that i enjoy it lol)
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Sir Juanalot
Senior Don Juan
If her nametag says "Jane" say
"I'd like a large americano, and a Jane, to go"
"I'd like a large americano, and a Jane, to go"
Maybe not shouts, but.... well, yeah it does. Sure this sort of thing is relative, and a $50/plate restaurant is even more classy, but man its common knowledge that "preps" buy coffee from Starbucks. Granted, I live in AR so its not particularly hard to appear preppy here.Jay Jay said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
No one knows class like a 17-year-old, lol.