So i went into this starbucks wit a few of my buddies a week ago, and the girl behind the counter was really cute. She was lookin at me alot and ****, but we were in a rush and got out of there quick. Anyway tonight we went there today and wen i went up to order she was like smiling and stuff....idk if its cause she works there or w.e...anyway i was going up to try and talk to her but the line was long so i was gonna wait and the other girl workin there wo was like 21 and fat and gross helped me....crap lol. I wanna know, if i go back and try and game her what are some good things to say to the girl behind the counter?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hmmm.....
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
wow good one:box: ummm i think i can tell the difference between someone flirtatiously making eye contact and a greeter at wal mart....btw anyonethat shops at walmart is a fukking hick and/or a horrible person. Slave Labor. Petty Wages.
anyone with any real advice and not douchebaggedry responses would be great
anyone with any real advice and not douchebaggedry responses would be great
Ask a douchebag question.
Yeah, and starbucks just shouts class...
Sorry couldn't resist.
Seriously tho.
If she likes you (YET) is irrelevant.
So many dudes wonder "what does this mean?"
That is the wrong way to look at things.
The way you gotta think is "I like her. Now I am going to get her."
What you say to her (besides "I'd like a macchiato") should be what you say to any girl you pursue.
And for that my friend, you should go check the bible, the tips page and the archives.
JJ
Yeah, and starbucks just shouts class...
Sorry couldn't resist.
Seriously tho.
If she likes you (YET) is irrelevant.
So many dudes wonder "what does this mean?"
That is the wrong way to look at things.
The way you gotta think is "I like her. Now I am going to get her."
What you say to her (besides "I'd like a macchiato") should be what you say to any girl you pursue.
And for that my friend, you should go check the bible, the tips page and the archives.
JJ
ok thansks......i kno im not wondering if she likes me lol...i jus wanna know any special ways to approach the girl behind the counter. like weni orderd i wanted to start some small talk but there was a line behind me and my d-bag friends lik "haha talk to her dude" lol.....
starbucks is classier than walmart (not that i enjoy it lol)
starbucks is classier than walmart (not that i enjoy it lol)
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sir Juanalot
Senior Don Juan
If her nametag says "Jane" say
"I'd like a large americano, and a Jane, to go"
"I'd like a large americano, and a Jane, to go"
Maybe not shouts, but.... well, yeah it does. Sure this sort of thing is relative, and a $50/plate restaurant is even more classy, but man its common knowledge that "preps" buy coffee from Starbucks. Granted, I live in AR so its not particularly hard to appear preppy here.Jay Jay said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
No one knows class like a 17-year-old, lol.