backseatjuan
Banned
Wtf is inactive hiv? and can you get infected from it?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hiv
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
A HIV infection is inactive when there are no viruses circulating in the bodily fluids, but their genetic code is still (and always will be) present in the DNA of some of the person's T-cells. The person isn't contagious and won't develop AIDS, but only while they keep taking their medication.
The risk of HIV transmission by vaginal sex is extremely low - even untreated, it's less than 0.01% - but it's risking a lot, so always wear a condom if you don't know for a fact that the person is clean. Luckily in the developed world, HIV is almost exclusively restricted to gay men and intravenous drug users, and even then, only the minority who are careless (or raped).
The risk of HIV transmission by vaginal sex is extremely low - even untreated, it's less than 0.01% - but it's risking a lot, so always wear a condom if you don't know for a fact that the person is clean. Luckily in the developed world, HIV is almost exclusively restricted to gay men and intravenous drug users, and even then, only the minority who are careless (or raped).
IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
"Pulling out" is effective contraception. The failure rate, assuming you pull out on time, every time, is about 5%, compared to about 3% for condoms.
Then again, the kind of person who would rely on that is probably not the kind of person who can pull out on time, every time. I can, but I still use condoms with people I don't trust because pulling out doesn't protect you against STIs.
Then again, the kind of person who would rely on that is probably not the kind of person who can pull out on time, every time. I can, but I still use condoms with people I don't trust because pulling out doesn't protect you against STIs.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.