backseatjuan
Banned
Wtf is inactive hiv? and can you get infected from it?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Hiv
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
A HIV infection is inactive when there are no viruses circulating in the bodily fluids, but their genetic code is still (and always will be) present in the DNA of some of the person's T-cells. The person isn't contagious and won't develop AIDS, but only while they keep taking their medication.
The risk of HIV transmission by vaginal sex is extremely low - even untreated, it's less than 0.01% - but it's risking a lot, so always wear a condom if you don't know for a fact that the person is clean. Luckily in the developed world, HIV is almost exclusively restricted to gay men and intravenous drug users, and even then, only the minority who are careless (or raped).
The risk of HIV transmission by vaginal sex is extremely low - even untreated, it's less than 0.01% - but it's risking a lot, so always wear a condom if you don't know for a fact that the person is clean. Luckily in the developed world, HIV is almost exclusively restricted to gay men and intravenous drug users, and even then, only the minority who are careless (or raped).
IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
"Pulling out" is effective contraception. The failure rate, assuming you pull out on time, every time, is about 5%, compared to about 3% for condoms.
Then again, the kind of person who would rely on that is probably not the kind of person who can pull out on time, every time. I can, but I still use condoms with people I don't trust because pulling out doesn't protect you against STIs.
Then again, the kind of person who would rely on that is probably not the kind of person who can pull out on time, every time. I can, but I still use condoms with people I don't trust because pulling out doesn't protect you against STIs.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.