what's a good response when a girl hits you or slaps you in a teasing manner? we were both standing there, she hits me with her purse, i kind of stand there and ignore it, not even look at her, and she goes, "you're so fun, you're just like a brother to me."
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Desdinova
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I did that once. She never hit me again, and quit talking to me. That's okay, she was a cow.
If she's playfully hitting you, you can playfully hit her back. Or you could do something else like pat her on the head, pinch her (face) cheeks, tap her on the nose and say "You're BAD!"
nvictor
Senior Don Juan
Desdinova. The best comes from David DeAngelo.
Look her straight in the eyes, smile and say "Cute!" or "Nice!"
Man I tell you that work.
Look her straight in the eyes, smile and say "Cute!" or "Nice!"
Man I tell you that work.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Espi said:
You, are, GOD!....ly. seriously, that was hilarious. I gotta admit, that would take some serious nuts to do that though. The ass might be less uh...nevermind. I liked that though.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
happened before. we were messin around, playfully fighting, messing up hair, poking, tickling, and the girl freaked out and said "YOU KNOW WHAT? **** OFF!" (and this was in a 100% serious and pissed tone)
yet she was still going (play-fighting back) right up to until she said that
nuttier than a squirrel turd
another time, she came up and punched me in the back (right in the spine)
Me "hey! dont punch me in the back"
Her "(Sarcastic) Awww did it hurt you???"
Me "Yes. theres a spine in there"
normally I'm all for playin around, but this was a real punch into a vulnerable area
yet she was still going (play-fighting back) right up to until she said that
nuttier than a squirrel turd
another time, she came up and punched me in the back (right in the spine)
Me "hey! dont punch me in the back"
Her "(Sarcastic) Awww did it hurt you???"
Me "Yes. theres a spine in there"
normally I'm all for playin around, but this was a real punch into a vulnerable area
Be careful when a woman says this after she hits you. There is a difference between when she hits you because she likes you or she hits you because you are like one of her girlfriend's or brother.rrrrr said:
If you know her well enough a good smack on her bottom will ensure that she won't view you like that.