Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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'Hitch' (the movie)

iveyleeger

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Hilarious... Loved Will Smith's rant at the speed date. Any good DJ take-aways there? What about the 90% kiss rule?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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90% kiss rule works...but it's almost a given if the girl is into you.
 

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Heres what I do, I don't think of it so much as a 'tactic', it just happens naturally:

Her- blah blah (small talk)

Me- yeah, uhuh

Her- blah blah

Me - (insert witty remark here, make her laugh)

Me- I had a good time tonight

Her- Yeah! We should do it again

Me- I dunno you (make joke about date she can relate to)...*move closer*

Her- Shutup! *playfully hits you*

Read her reaction and give her good eye contact. Continue to move in as you talk to her. If she's into you, she will either let you kiss her, or move in on the kiss herself.

But like I said, it's natural when two people are feeling each other, not anything to think about.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You do that in bars? I am thinking I messed up recently by not kiss closing in the bar. I waited until later, and then she didn't seem into it.
 
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