Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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'Hitch' (the movie)

iveyleeger

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Hilarious... Loved Will Smith's rant at the speed date. Any good DJ take-aways there? What about the 90% kiss rule?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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90% kiss rule works...but it's almost a given if the girl is into you.
 

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Heres what I do, I don't think of it so much as a 'tactic', it just happens naturally:

Her- blah blah (small talk)

Me- yeah, uhuh

Her- blah blah

Me - (insert witty remark here, make her laugh)

Me- I had a good time tonight

Her- Yeah! We should do it again

Me- I dunno you (make joke about date she can relate to)...*move closer*

Her- Shutup! *playfully hits you*

Read her reaction and give her good eye contact. Continue to move in as you talk to her. If she's into you, she will either let you kiss her, or move in on the kiss herself.

But like I said, it's natural when two people are feeling each other, not anything to think about.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You do that in bars? I am thinking I messed up recently by not kiss closing in the bar. I waited until later, and then she didn't seem into it.
 
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