"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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'Hitch' (the movie)

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Hilarious... Loved Will Smith's rant at the speed date. Any good DJ take-aways there? What about the 90% kiss rule?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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90% kiss rule works...but it's almost a given if the girl is into you.
 
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Heres what I do, I don't think of it so much as a 'tactic', it just happens naturally:

Her- blah blah (small talk)

Me- yeah, uhuh

Her- blah blah

Me - (insert witty remark here, make her laugh)

Me- I had a good time tonight

Her- Yeah! We should do it again

Me- I dunno you (make joke about date she can relate to)...*move closer*

Her- Shutup! *playfully hits you*

Read her reaction and give her good eye contact. Continue to move in as you talk to her. If she's into you, she will either let you kiss her, or move in on the kiss herself.

But like I said, it's natural when two people are feeling each other, not anything to think about.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You do that in bars? I am thinking I messed up recently by not kiss closing in the bar. I waited until later, and then she didn't seem into it.
 
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