Simple really. My ex and i have been broken up for a week now. Last night we almost hooked up, it's going to happen. Yes she already has a new boyfriend. I know for a fact she knew him before we broke up. Every sign i seen and was told they had hooked up before. Worth it? She's hot, and well what the hell? I'm not going to tell the new boyfriend. She thinks i will which was the reason last night it didn't happen, but it will happen soon. I care about her, but still. She knows who gives it best. lol:woo:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Hit it?
- Thread starter roflcop
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I figure he did it to me. Why not, **** buddies i don't care at this point at least for now.It's all goodOriginally posted by piranha45
hell yeah. just make sure you don't get emotionally attached to her.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
HIT IT>
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Make sure you use a condom, even if she's on the pill.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You used to date her and hit it, now you know she cheated on you, and you still want to sleep with her? This ***** is not worth your time man. There are a lot of hot girls out there.
It sounds to me like she is getting what she wants out of you and her other boyfriend. I have been through the exact same thing man. I didnt care at the time, but now when i think about it, i feel like i wasnt in control of myself.
I look back, and sleeping with her when we werent in a relationship was not worth it, and she was gorgeous! I had 4 of my close friends hit on her( all of which were shot down miserably) before i dated her. I would rather go a month without sex than have the casual boring **** i had with her.
It sounds to me like she is getting what she wants out of you and her other boyfriend. I have been through the exact same thing man. I didnt care at the time, but now when i think about it, i feel like i wasnt in control of myself.
I look back, and sleeping with her when we werent in a relationship was not worth it, and she was gorgeous! I had 4 of my close friends hit on her( all of which were shot down miserably) before i dated her. I would rather go a month without sex than have the casual boring **** i had with her.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Hit it before I come along.
Yeah
Took longer than i expected... Was a bit of a pain, i ignored her for 2 days cuz she got snappy with me last thursday. She came back begging saturday to be my friend again.
Thursday = Beat it up :crackup:
Hmm wonder if i can hit it tonight again... Maybe i'll ignore her now for a day or 2. She doesn't mind if i hook up with other chicks. Except 1 girl in particular. Little does she know if the girl would give it up. I'd :woo: all over it.
Took longer than i expected... Was a bit of a pain, i ignored her for 2 days cuz she got snappy with me last thursday. She came back begging saturday to be my friend again.
Thursday = Beat it up :crackup:
Hmm wonder if i can hit it tonight again... Maybe i'll ignore her now for a day or 2. She doesn't mind if i hook up with other chicks. Except 1 girl in particular. Little does she know if the girl would give it up. I'd :woo: all over it.
MightyMate
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**** her but dont become bf for secnd time..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.