Simple really. My ex and i have been broken up for a week now. Last night we almost hooked up, it's going to happen. Yes she already has a new boyfriend. I know for a fact she knew him before we broke up. Every sign i seen and was told they had hooked up before. Worth it? She's hot, and well what the hell? I'm not going to tell the new boyfriend. She thinks i will which was the reason last night it didn't happen, but it will happen soon. I care about her, but still. She knows who gives it best. lol:woo:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hit it?
- Thread starter roflcop
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I figure he did it to me. Why not, **** buddies i don't care at this point at least for now.It's all goodOriginally posted by piranha45
hell yeah. just make sure you don't get emotionally attached to her.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
HIT IT>
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Make sure you use a condom, even if she's on the pill.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You used to date her and hit it, now you know she cheated on you, and you still want to sleep with her? This ***** is not worth your time man. There are a lot of hot girls out there.
It sounds to me like she is getting what she wants out of you and her other boyfriend. I have been through the exact same thing man. I didnt care at the time, but now when i think about it, i feel like i wasnt in control of myself.
I look back, and sleeping with her when we werent in a relationship was not worth it, and she was gorgeous! I had 4 of my close friends hit on her( all of which were shot down miserably) before i dated her. I would rather go a month without sex than have the casual boring **** i had with her.
It sounds to me like she is getting what she wants out of you and her other boyfriend. I have been through the exact same thing man. I didnt care at the time, but now when i think about it, i feel like i wasnt in control of myself.
I look back, and sleeping with her when we werent in a relationship was not worth it, and she was gorgeous! I had 4 of my close friends hit on her( all of which were shot down miserably) before i dated her. I would rather go a month without sex than have the casual boring **** i had with her.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Hit it before I come along.
Yeah
Took longer than i expected... Was a bit of a pain, i ignored her for 2 days cuz she got snappy with me last thursday. She came back begging saturday to be my friend again.
Thursday = Beat it up :crackup:
Hmm wonder if i can hit it tonight again... Maybe i'll ignore her now for a day or 2. She doesn't mind if i hook up with other chicks. Except 1 girl in particular. Little does she know if the girl would give it up. I'd :woo: all over it.
Took longer than i expected... Was a bit of a pain, i ignored her for 2 days cuz she got snappy with me last thursday. She came back begging saturday to be my friend again.
Thursday = Beat it up :crackup:
Hmm wonder if i can hit it tonight again... Maybe i'll ignore her now for a day or 2. She doesn't mind if i hook up with other chicks. Except 1 girl in particular. Little does she know if the girl would give it up. I'd :woo: all over it.
MightyMate
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**** her but dont become bf for secnd time..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.