Simple really. My ex and i have been broken up for a week now. Last night we almost hooked up, it's going to happen. Yes she already has a new boyfriend. I know for a fact she knew him before we broke up. Every sign i seen and was told they had hooked up before. Worth it? She's hot, and well what the hell? I'm not going to tell the new boyfriend. She thinks i will which was the reason last night it didn't happen, but it will happen soon. I care about her, but still. She knows who gives it best. lol:woo:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hit it?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I figure he did it to me. Why not, **** buddies i don't care at this point at least for now.It's all goodOriginally posted by piranha45
hell yeah. just make sure you don't get emotionally attached to her.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
HIT IT>
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Make sure you use a condom, even if she's on the pill.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You used to date her and hit it, now you know she cheated on you, and you still want to sleep with her? This ***** is not worth your time man. There are a lot of hot girls out there.
It sounds to me like she is getting what she wants out of you and her other boyfriend. I have been through the exact same thing man. I didnt care at the time, but now when i think about it, i feel like i wasnt in control of myself.
I look back, and sleeping with her when we werent in a relationship was not worth it, and she was gorgeous! I had 4 of my close friends hit on her( all of which were shot down miserably) before i dated her. I would rather go a month without sex than have the casual boring **** i had with her.
It sounds to me like she is getting what she wants out of you and her other boyfriend. I have been through the exact same thing man. I didnt care at the time, but now when i think about it, i feel like i wasnt in control of myself.
I look back, and sleeping with her when we werent in a relationship was not worth it, and she was gorgeous! I had 4 of my close friends hit on her( all of which were shot down miserably) before i dated her. I would rather go a month without sex than have the casual boring **** i had with her.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Hit it before I come along.
Yeah
Took longer than i expected... Was a bit of a pain, i ignored her for 2 days cuz she got snappy with me last thursday. She came back begging saturday to be my friend again.
Thursday = Beat it up :crackup:
Hmm wonder if i can hit it tonight again... Maybe i'll ignore her now for a day or 2. She doesn't mind if i hook up with other chicks. Except 1 girl in particular. Little does she know if the girl would give it up. I'd :woo: all over it.
Took longer than i expected... Was a bit of a pain, i ignored her for 2 days cuz she got snappy with me last thursday. She came back begging saturday to be my friend again.
Thursday = Beat it up :crackup:
Hmm wonder if i can hit it tonight again... Maybe i'll ignore her now for a day or 2. She doesn't mind if i hook up with other chicks. Except 1 girl in particular. Little does she know if the girl would give it up. I'd :woo: all over it.
MightyMate
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**** her but dont become bf for secnd time..
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.