Simple really. My ex and i have been broken up for a week now. Last night we almost hooked up, it's going to happen. Yes she already has a new boyfriend. I know for a fact she knew him before we broke up. Every sign i seen and was told they had hooked up before. Worth it? She's hot, and well what the hell? I'm not going to tell the new boyfriend. She thinks i will which was the reason last night it didn't happen, but it will happen soon. I care about her, but still. She knows who gives it best. lol:woo:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hit it?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I figure he did it to me. Why not, **** buddies i don't care at this point at least for now.It's all goodOriginally posted by piranha45
hell yeah. just make sure you don't get emotionally attached to her.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
HIT IT>
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Make sure you use a condom, even if she's on the pill.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You used to date her and hit it, now you know she cheated on you, and you still want to sleep with her? This ***** is not worth your time man. There are a lot of hot girls out there.
It sounds to me like she is getting what she wants out of you and her other boyfriend. I have been through the exact same thing man. I didnt care at the time, but now when i think about it, i feel like i wasnt in control of myself.
I look back, and sleeping with her when we werent in a relationship was not worth it, and she was gorgeous! I had 4 of my close friends hit on her( all of which were shot down miserably) before i dated her. I would rather go a month without sex than have the casual boring **** i had with her.
It sounds to me like she is getting what she wants out of you and her other boyfriend. I have been through the exact same thing man. I didnt care at the time, but now when i think about it, i feel like i wasnt in control of myself.
I look back, and sleeping with her when we werent in a relationship was not worth it, and she was gorgeous! I had 4 of my close friends hit on her( all of which were shot down miserably) before i dated her. I would rather go a month without sex than have the casual boring **** i had with her.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Hit it before I come along.
Yeah
Took longer than i expected... Was a bit of a pain, i ignored her for 2 days cuz she got snappy with me last thursday. She came back begging saturday to be my friend again.
Thursday = Beat it up :crackup:
Hmm wonder if i can hit it tonight again... Maybe i'll ignore her now for a day or 2. She doesn't mind if i hook up with other chicks. Except 1 girl in particular. Little does she know if the girl would give it up. I'd :woo: all over it.
Took longer than i expected... Was a bit of a pain, i ignored her for 2 days cuz she got snappy with me last thursday. She came back begging saturday to be my friend again.
Thursday = Beat it up :crackup:
Hmm wonder if i can hit it tonight again... Maybe i'll ignore her now for a day or 2. She doesn't mind if i hook up with other chicks. Except 1 girl in particular. Little does she know if the girl would give it up. I'd :woo: all over it.
MightyMate
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**** her but dont become bf for secnd time..
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.