"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Highscool relationships and cheating.

Stingers

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Well recently i got into a relationship with a girl she is currently a freshman, i am a sophomore. Her mother is an over protective B**** and has limits on the phone such as 9 and 10 on the weekends. She periodically reads her messages and when i make a sexual comment her mom texts me with some bullshxt. I can only get some ass kino when im with her but even then she is shy and doesnt want anymore than that. On the other there is this girl that wants the D, and she really wants it. Shes not the dating type but more of a one night stand. im not sure if i want to get some side action with her and date her for a little while longer or if i should just cut the girl im dating off while im at it. help me pick you DJ's :D

*edit* i forgot to mention this girl would be real good LTR material if it werent for her parents.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NorwegianDJ

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Do what makes you happy. If you dislike the relationship, then break it off with her first.
 

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Stingers said:
I forgot to mention this girl would be real good LTR material if it weren't for her parents.
Operative word being "if".
 

LearningSlowly

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Who I was in high school, I would have gone for the sex right away.

Who I am now, I would pick based on the quality of the person, and the potential for a meaningful relationship.

Which one are you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Approach anxiety can be more easily overcome with thoughts, but to try to do the same with closing presents three problems, You feel invested in the girl from the effort of approach, you can't feel kiss-vibes while in your head and your head is to crowded from thinking for so long....
 

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You're a sophomore in high school, you're dating a freshman, and you're whining that her mother is being protective of her daughter when you make a sexual comment to her daughter? She's 14 / 15 years old.

Personally I'm amazing with the level of sexuality or the perceived level of sexuality between teenagers nowadays, and I'm an old guy (21 years old). It was almost unheard of for people to be having sex when I was in 7th-10th grade or so unless the girl was a big slut, but now it seems like 13 and 14 year olds are getting wasted and boned out by some 14 year old kid.
 

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MrNiceGuy23 said:
You're a sophomore in high school, you're dating a freshman, and you're whining that her mother is being protective of her daughter when you make a sexual comment to her daughter? She's 14 / 15 years old.

Personally I'm amazing with the level of sexuality or the perceived level of sexuality between teenagers nowadays, and I'm an old guy (21 years old). It was almost unheard of for people to be having sex when I was in 7th-10th grade or so unless the girl was a big slut, but now it seems like 13 and 14 year olds are getting wasted and boned out by some 14 year old kid.

Well said ... lol .. i fear for my daughter who is 14. Shes got *****isitis almost 24/7 so she puts out alot of **** tests on guys that are interested in her and they all fail (i monitor the internet activity but pick my battles). SHe told me that if they dont got the guts to kill deer or wildlife .. and cant out match her physical strength (shes in martial arts) and be able to put her in her place .. and deal with her *****yness and hold an intelligent convo... she wont be dating them.

I say .. GREAT! haha
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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