"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stingers

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Well recently i got into a relationship with a girl she is currently a freshman, i am a sophomore. Her mother is an over protective B**** and has limits on the phone such as 9 and 10 on the weekends. She periodically reads her messages and when i make a sexual comment her mom texts me with some bullshxt. I can only get some ass kino when im with her but even then she is shy and doesnt want anymore than that. On the other there is this girl that wants the D, and she really wants it. Shes not the dating type but more of a one night stand. im not sure if i want to get some side action with her and date her for a little while longer or if i should just cut the girl im dating off while im at it. help me pick you DJ's :D

*edit* i forgot to mention this girl would be real good LTR material if it werent for her parents.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NorwegianDJ

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Do what makes you happy. If you dislike the relationship, then break it off with her first.
 

Amo

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Stingers said:
I forgot to mention this girl would be real good LTR material if it weren't for her parents.
Operative word being "if".
 

LearningSlowly

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Who I was in high school, I would have gone for the sex right away.

Who I am now, I would pick based on the quality of the person, and the potential for a meaningful relationship.

Which one are you?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Adrien123

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Approach anxiety can be more easily overcome with thoughts, but to try to do the same with closing presents three problems, You feel invested in the girl from the effort of approach, you can't feel kiss-vibes while in your head and your head is to crowded from thinking for so long....
 

MrNiceGuy23

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You're a sophomore in high school, you're dating a freshman, and you're whining that her mother is being protective of her daughter when you make a sexual comment to her daughter? She's 14 / 15 years old.

Personally I'm amazing with the level of sexuality or the perceived level of sexuality between teenagers nowadays, and I'm an old guy (21 years old). It was almost unheard of for people to be having sex when I was in 7th-10th grade or so unless the girl was a big slut, but now it seems like 13 and 14 year olds are getting wasted and boned out by some 14 year old kid.
 

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MrNiceGuy23 said:
You're a sophomore in high school, you're dating a freshman, and you're whining that her mother is being protective of her daughter when you make a sexual comment to her daughter? She's 14 / 15 years old.

Personally I'm amazing with the level of sexuality or the perceived level of sexuality between teenagers nowadays, and I'm an old guy (21 years old). It was almost unheard of for people to be having sex when I was in 7th-10th grade or so unless the girl was a big slut, but now it seems like 13 and 14 year olds are getting wasted and boned out by some 14 year old kid.

Well said ... lol .. i fear for my daughter who is 14. Shes got *****isitis almost 24/7 so she puts out alot of **** tests on guys that are interested in her and they all fail (i monitor the internet activity but pick my battles). SHe told me that if they dont got the guts to kill deer or wildlife .. and cant out match her physical strength (shes in martial arts) and be able to put her in her place .. and deal with her *****yness and hold an intelligent convo... she wont be dating them.

I say .. GREAT! haha
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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