"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Highscool relationships and cheating.

Stingers

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Well recently i got into a relationship with a girl she is currently a freshman, i am a sophomore. Her mother is an over protective B**** and has limits on the phone such as 9 and 10 on the weekends. She periodically reads her messages and when i make a sexual comment her mom texts me with some bullshxt. I can only get some ass kino when im with her but even then she is shy and doesnt want anymore than that. On the other there is this girl that wants the D, and she really wants it. Shes not the dating type but more of a one night stand. im not sure if i want to get some side action with her and date her for a little while longer or if i should just cut the girl im dating off while im at it. help me pick you DJ's :D

*edit* i forgot to mention this girl would be real good LTR material if it werent for her parents.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NorwegianDJ

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Do what makes you happy. If you dislike the relationship, then break it off with her first.
 

Amo

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Stingers said:
I forgot to mention this girl would be real good LTR material if it weren't for her parents.
Operative word being "if".
 

LearningSlowly

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Who I was in high school, I would have gone for the sex right away.

Who I am now, I would pick based on the quality of the person, and the potential for a meaningful relationship.

Which one are you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Adrien123

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Approach anxiety can be more easily overcome with thoughts, but to try to do the same with closing presents three problems, You feel invested in the girl from the effort of approach, you can't feel kiss-vibes while in your head and your head is to crowded from thinking for so long....
 

MrNiceGuy23

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You're a sophomore in high school, you're dating a freshman, and you're whining that her mother is being protective of her daughter when you make a sexual comment to her daughter? She's 14 / 15 years old.

Personally I'm amazing with the level of sexuality or the perceived level of sexuality between teenagers nowadays, and I'm an old guy (21 years old). It was almost unheard of for people to be having sex when I was in 7th-10th grade or so unless the girl was a big slut, but now it seems like 13 and 14 year olds are getting wasted and boned out by some 14 year old kid.
 

Epimanes

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MrNiceGuy23 said:
You're a sophomore in high school, you're dating a freshman, and you're whining that her mother is being protective of her daughter when you make a sexual comment to her daughter? She's 14 / 15 years old.

Personally I'm amazing with the level of sexuality or the perceived level of sexuality between teenagers nowadays, and I'm an old guy (21 years old). It was almost unheard of for people to be having sex when I was in 7th-10th grade or so unless the girl was a big slut, but now it seems like 13 and 14 year olds are getting wasted and boned out by some 14 year old kid.

Well said ... lol .. i fear for my daughter who is 14. Shes got *****isitis almost 24/7 so she puts out alot of **** tests on guys that are interested in her and they all fail (i monitor the internet activity but pick my battles). SHe told me that if they dont got the guts to kill deer or wildlife .. and cant out match her physical strength (shes in martial arts) and be able to put her in her place .. and deal with her *****yness and hold an intelligent convo... she wont be dating them.

I say .. GREAT! haha
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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