LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
AlexLefty said:
It'll be fun.I need to get out of the house today and tomorrow and get those approaches.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
High School Don Juan Bootcamp Week Two: The Knight's Quest.
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It'll be fun.I need to get out of the house today and tomorrow and get those approaches.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
novaknight
Senior Don Juan
I never really have the chance to approach girls. But I'm thinking about suicide approaches on Monday. Saturday, I ain't going anywhere, and I got church on Sundays. Might consider suicide approaches at church though, even though they won't go anywhere for sure.
I recommend suicide approaches to everyone, at least for your first approach, they're kind of like your warm up set. If you're feeling AA, the best thing to do is to get rid of it right away by saying the stupidest thing possible. For example, going up to a girl and in a retarded voice saying "Excuse me, hey! hey! Hi... BlahLpufffrtblahduhwtgrangangalazupwratsulooouupppeyystoouu" and then just staring at them until they walk away. That's how you conquer that initial AA.
NorwegianDJ
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Accounting for today and yesterday, I've got 10/5. I'll make it 3/3, since it was groups and 1+1 chick. I'll take Violet's # and have that count for the # part
As for the side challenge, my hair is longer than it's ever been (maybe it was longer in 5th grade). Looks better than ever! And hey, I cut my nails and worked out.
As for the side challenge, my hair is longer than it's ever been (maybe it was longer in 5th grade). Looks better than ever! And hey, I cut my nails and worked out.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Who's violet? I want to know the details of how you did this!NorwegianDJ said:Accounting for today and yesterday, I've got 10/5. I'll make it 3/3, since it was groups and 1+1 chick. I'll take Violet's # and have that count for the # part
BTW you slowly you should post week 3 challenge later tonight.
NorwegianDJ
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JournalAlexLefty said:
BPH
Master Don Juan
Done the approaches. No numbers. Approaching groups is devastating, but I did it anyway just to knock them out. Might get a number tomorrow at school, but if I do it probably won't be a chick I'm interested in.
So don't make next week's challenge something like "go on a date with the girl you got the number of".
So don't make next week's challenge something like "go on a date with the girl you got the number of".
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Don't worry. I've got something in mind that may get you some numbers next week. Will post tonight.BPH said:
The Libertine
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I didn't count my approaches but I think I've done more than 7. I haven't gotten a number though,which was the point of the challenge. But I had e pretty busy week and I didn't see any of the girls I thought look cute. Actually if facebook closes work I've been added by 3 girls after approaching them.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
novaknight
Senior Don Juan
I did an approach today, and got a name down!
Jack Wealthy
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f-yuh
Dud all fyve appraches in 40 minutes. 2 not hot but already talked to them. Went for one # got boyfriendededed. Yar I'm garte.
Dud all fyve appraches in 40 minutes. 2 not hot but already talked to them. Went for one # got boyfriendededed. Yar I'm garte.
Wow, i have to say that this was way harder than i though it was going to be. I am not going to make any excuses for this and just say that this week was a disappointed for me. I didnt geta single approach because i was just way too scared to do it. My approach anxiety is controlling me way to much for me to let it win so this week i will not try, but succeed in getting week two done for real.
/ Peterbror
/ Peterbror
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Got a couple approaches. One more today. No number attempts, so I technically failed this. It's all in my journal.
Hey man, have you done week 1? After week 1, you should feel more comfortable approaching random girls. I personally do! I used to be terrified. I also have days like that where I go to the mall and I don't do any approaches and I just walk around. At least you were on the field and you weren't lazy. That's good. I have a friend with me doing this, and it REALLY helps I think. Just make sure you don't pick a negative friend with you, because you're better alone than with a negative friend sometimes.Peterbror said:
Learning, c'mon you can do this yo.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
novaknight
Senior Don Juan
one botched approach. 2/3.
I did week 1 and i felt that it was a success but i didnt have a motive when talking to them just thought of having a conversation. It is when you have to think to get the number i get really anxious and my head just says No when i see a girl i want to approach. But this week im trying again with some support from my brother.Mindgamez said:
Thanks for the encourage
novaknight
Senior Don Juan
3/3. But Since I got no number, I must go do 2 more.