"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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High quality woman alert: "4 ways I help my husband be my leader" by mrs.midwest

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Never going to find a woman over about 22 that would do this. Because she would never be available.
I think you're right.

Almost cruel to post this good example, when we know these characteristics can only be available in <22 yr old women.

But that's the age sosuavers are looking for if considering wifing them up.
 

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But that's the age sosuavers are looking for if considering wifing them up.

sub out the diamond for marriage in this reading and relationship for marriage. I think that is the SS position.
 

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sub out the diamond for marriage in this reading and relationship for marriage. I think that is the SS position.
I understand.

Can't help it, metalwater, made me feel good reading about mrs.midwest's good attitude and I shared thinking someone else might feel good knowing a good, young wife like this exists in North America. Gives some hope for those who've never heard of a woman like this in the west.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A man must TAKE authority. A man granted authority has none.
 

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A man must TAKE authority. A man granted authority has none.
true.

Respect however has to be granted, a man that tried to take it will have none. It would be much simple if it can be taken.
 

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I found EE(Eastern European) women to have this type of mentality. Not all of them and unfortunately with the westernized feminism affecting their country, you find less and less but still more than the US for example.

They understand that they want the man to be the head of the body and them being the shoulders to prop up the head. But the reverse side is they want to find a strong and alpha type man. If he has any weaknesses, their support and respect quickly fade for him.
 
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