I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I have seen this list in different forms, and by different authors. Always the same content. This would/will be effective for sure.
I think you're right.Never going to find a woman over about 22 that would do this. Because she would never be available.
But that's the age sosuavers are looking for if considering wifing them up.
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On the Economics of Diamonds, the Biggest Marketing Scam in History Orchestrated by the Most Successful Cartel Ever
From the Priceonomics blog post “Diamonds Are Bull****” by Rohin Dahr (emphasis added): Americans exchange diamond rings as part of the engagement process, because in 1938 De Beers decided that they would like us to....www.aei.org
sub out the diamond for marriage in this reading and relationship for marriage. I think that is the SS position.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
true.A man must TAKE authority. A man granted authority has none.