"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
High quality woman alert: "4 ways I help my husband be my leader" by mrs.midwest
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
metalwater
Master Don Juan
I have seen this list in different forms, and by different authors. Always the same content. This would/will be effective for sure.
Most women will not do this. Why should they? It is much easier to try another option than to actually invest.
Never going to find a woman over about 22 that would do this. Because she would never be available.
I think you're right.
Almost cruel to post this good example, when we know these characteristics can only be available in <22 yr old women.
But that's the age sosuavers are looking for if considering wifing them up.
metalwater
Master Don Juan
On the Economics of Diamonds, the Biggest Marketing Scam in History Orchestrated by the Most Successful Cartel Ever
From the Priceonomics blog post “Diamonds Are Bull****” by Rohin Dahr (emphasis added): Americans exchange diamond rings as part of the engagement process, because in 1938 De Beers decided that they would like us to....
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sub out the diamond for marriage in this reading and relationship for marriage. I think that is the SS position.
I understand.On the Economics of Diamonds, the Biggest Marketing Scam in History Orchestrated by the Most Successful Cartel Ever
From the Priceonomics blog post “Diamonds Are Bull****” by Rohin Dahr (emphasis added): Americans exchange diamond rings as part of the engagement process, because in 1938 De Beers decided that they would like us to....
sub out the diamond for marriage in this reading and relationship for marriage. I think that is the SS position.
Can't help it, metalwater, made me feel good reading about mrs.midwest's good attitude and I shared thinking someone else might feel good knowing a good, young wife like this exists in North America. Gives some hope for those who've never heard of a woman like this in the west.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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A man must TAKE authority. A man granted authority has none.
metalwater
Master Don Juan
true.
Respect however has to be granted, a man that tried to take it will have none. It would be much simple if it can be taken.
I found EE(Eastern European) women to have this type of mentality. Not all of them and unfortunately with the westernized feminism affecting their country, you find less and less but still more than the US for example.
They understand that they want the man to be the head of the body and them being the shoulders to prop up the head. But the reverse side is they want to find a strong and alpha type man. If he has any weaknesses, their support and respect quickly fade for him.
They understand that they want the man to be the head of the body and them being the shoulders to prop up the head. But the reverse side is they want to find a strong and alpha type man. If he has any weaknesses, their support and respect quickly fade for him.