"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hi!

Oppa

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Dear fellas,


I am 20 years old currently attending college majoring in business & pre-law. I coach high school badminton and work at a gas station; currently saving up money for a cell phone shop.

I'm very skinny, 5'7 and 120 pounds. However, I am currently working on my weight in order to bulk up to bring the sexy.

Socially, I am not very adept for I recently moved to a different town in order to pursue school and my soon-to-be cellphone business.

At this time, I am trying to find friends but no avail, it seems community college is very different compared to a 4 year university and high school.

As for girls, I've always been a nice guy at heart and it really took a toll on me when I entered college. It doesnt work ;p

In any case, I have formally introduced myself to the community and question on where I should start in order to pursue this "DJ" life that I have come to see as enlightment.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gubby

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Oppa said:
Dear fellas,
Welcome Oppa! Is that name Greek? :D
In any case, I have formally introduced myself to the community and question on where I should start in order to pursue this "DJ" life that I have come to see as enlightment.
I tried to search "Weapons of Mass Seduction" for a quote that seemed fitting, but it wasn't there, must have been a different one of Fingers's posts, well I'll put it down from memory:

Who is our oppressor? Who is making our life like this?

Go to the bathroom and stand in front of the mirror.

Take a cold hard look at the bastard.


On a sidenote, did you know that Señor Fingers uses the word "bastard" a total of 95 times in that whole Ebook?:D :D :D




Also. I think there's a bit of a cold-hearted vibe in this place. You get a lot of people suggesting or at least implying that your heart is not something important. Masculinity is stressed. Well remember there can be no masculinity without femininity. DO NOT THROW AWAY YOUR HEART!

Be as feminine or loving as you already are... and make your masculinity stronger AS WELL.
 
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