"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hi!

Oppa

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Dear fellas,


I am 20 years old currently attending college majoring in business & pre-law. I coach high school badminton and work at a gas station; currently saving up money for a cell phone shop.

I'm very skinny, 5'7 and 120 pounds. However, I am currently working on my weight in order to bulk up to bring the sexy.

Socially, I am not very adept for I recently moved to a different town in order to pursue school and my soon-to-be cellphone business.

At this time, I am trying to find friends but no avail, it seems community college is very different compared to a 4 year university and high school.

As for girls, I've always been a nice guy at heart and it really took a toll on me when I entered college. It doesnt work ;p

In any case, I have formally introduced myself to the community and question on where I should start in order to pursue this "DJ" life that I have come to see as enlightment.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gubby

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Oppa said:
Dear fellas,
Welcome Oppa! Is that name Greek? :D
In any case, I have formally introduced myself to the community and question on where I should start in order to pursue this "DJ" life that I have come to see as enlightment.
I tried to search "Weapons of Mass Seduction" for a quote that seemed fitting, but it wasn't there, must have been a different one of Fingers's posts, well I'll put it down from memory:

Who is our oppressor? Who is making our life like this?

Go to the bathroom and stand in front of the mirror.

Take a cold hard look at the bastard.


On a sidenote, did you know that Señor Fingers uses the word "bastard" a total of 95 times in that whole Ebook?:D :D :D




Also. I think there's a bit of a cold-hearted vibe in this place. You get a lot of people suggesting or at least implying that your heart is not something important. Masculinity is stressed. Well remember there can be no masculinity without femininity. DO NOT THROW AWAY YOUR HEART!

Be as feminine or loving as you already are... and make your masculinity stronger AS WELL.
 
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