"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dear fellas,


I am 20 years old currently attending college majoring in business & pre-law. I coach high school badminton and work at a gas station; currently saving up money for a cell phone shop.

I'm very skinny, 5'7 and 120 pounds. However, I am currently working on my weight in order to bulk up to bring the sexy.

Socially, I am not very adept for I recently moved to a different town in order to pursue school and my soon-to-be cellphone business.

At this time, I am trying to find friends but no avail, it seems community college is very different compared to a 4 year university and high school.

As for girls, I've always been a nice guy at heart and it really took a toll on me when I entered college. It doesnt work ;p

In any case, I have formally introduced myself to the community and question on where I should start in order to pursue this "DJ" life that I have come to see as enlightment.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oppa said:
Dear fellas,
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Welcome Oppa! Is that name Greek? :D
In any case, I have formally introduced myself to the community and question on where I should start in order to pursue this "DJ" life that I have come to see as enlightment.
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I tried to search "Weapons of Mass Seduction" for a quote that seemed fitting, but it wasn't there, must have been a different one of Fingers's posts, well I'll put it down from memory:

Who is our oppressor? Who is making our life like this?

Go to the bathroom and stand in front of the mirror.

Take a cold hard look at the bastard.


On a sidenote, did you know that Señor Fingers uses the word "bastard" a total of 95 times in that whole Ebook?:D :D :D




Also. I think there's a bit of a cold-hearted vibe in this place. You get a lot of people suggesting or at least implying that your heart is not something important. Masculinity is stressed. Well remember there can be no masculinity without femininity. DO NOT THROW AWAY YOUR HEART!

Be as feminine or loving as you already are... and make your masculinity stronger AS WELL.
 
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