"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hi!

Oppa

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Dear fellas,


I am 20 years old currently attending college majoring in business & pre-law. I coach high school badminton and work at a gas station; currently saving up money for a cell phone shop.

I'm very skinny, 5'7 and 120 pounds. However, I am currently working on my weight in order to bulk up to bring the sexy.

Socially, I am not very adept for I recently moved to a different town in order to pursue school and my soon-to-be cellphone business.

At this time, I am trying to find friends but no avail, it seems community college is very different compared to a 4 year university and high school.

As for girls, I've always been a nice guy at heart and it really took a toll on me when I entered college. It doesnt work ;p

In any case, I have formally introduced myself to the community and question on where I should start in order to pursue this "DJ" life that I have come to see as enlightment.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Gubby

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Oppa said:
Dear fellas,
Welcome Oppa! Is that name Greek? :D
In any case, I have formally introduced myself to the community and question on where I should start in order to pursue this "DJ" life that I have come to see as enlightment.
I tried to search "Weapons of Mass Seduction" for a quote that seemed fitting, but it wasn't there, must have been a different one of Fingers's posts, well I'll put it down from memory:

Who is our oppressor? Who is making our life like this?

Go to the bathroom and stand in front of the mirror.

Take a cold hard look at the bastard.


On a sidenote, did you know that Señor Fingers uses the word "bastard" a total of 95 times in that whole Ebook?:D :D :D




Also. I think there's a bit of a cold-hearted vibe in this place. You get a lot of people suggesting or at least implying that your heart is not something important. Masculinity is stressed. Well remember there can be no masculinity without femininity. DO NOT THROW AWAY YOUR HEART!

Be as feminine or loving as you already are... and make your masculinity stronger AS WELL.
 
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