"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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kickIT!

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Ok,
my master plan ;) for the weekend will be like this:

Getting her aroused by more-than-friendly-kino and then getting her answer on the question, if the situation is good for it.

Thx for the advice, I will report back soon.

-Christian
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hmmm,
not so good, now she canceled our meeting tomorrow, and this means: full ignore mode and no more love from me....

Nevertheless I have a backup plan for going out with another girl. I can't hit on this one, but she would be a good pivot anyways.

-Christian
 

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Originally posted by kickIT!
Uuuhm, I don't know what youre talking about here...If she has to take a pill EVERYDAY to be protected, the only uncommon thing is, that she takes it IN FRONT of me.

Maybe I don't get the meaning here, could you rephrase that? Normally I have no problems understanding english, but this "language" I didnt use very often.

To JSH:
Ok, thought of some touching myself (no comments as to the other meaning of this sentence ;) and I will try that with her.
As to the not giving what she wants...What exactly do you mean by this? I can't think of anything she could possibly want, that I could deny her, but my attention, and THAT I must give her, if we go out together...

-Christian
I was inferring as a joke that she took it in front of you to demonstrate the beleif that she thought she was going to be raped. Calm down ;)

Anyways, if you think she's interested go for it. If you don't, then don't. If you loose her over that she wasn't worht it anyways :)
 

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Ok, now I understand...The way you meant it was how I understood it at first, but after rereading it several times I wasn't sure anymore.

As to the girl:
I will completely ignore her from now on, and wait what she does.

It's just that...uuuhm....I'd really like to lay her ;I

-Christian
 

Smooth as Anything

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We all beleive ourselves anyway, and we're all idiots.

:)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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