"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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kickIT!

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Ok,
my master plan ;) for the weekend will be like this:

Getting her aroused by more-than-friendly-kino and then getting her answer on the question, if the situation is good for it.

Thx for the advice, I will report back soon.

-Christian
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hmmm,
not so good, now she canceled our meeting tomorrow, and this means: full ignore mode and no more love from me....

Nevertheless I have a backup plan for going out with another girl. I can't hit on this one, but she would be a good pivot anyways.

-Christian
 

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Originally posted by kickIT!
Uuuhm, I don't know what youre talking about here...If she has to take a pill EVERYDAY to be protected, the only uncommon thing is, that she takes it IN FRONT of me.

Maybe I don't get the meaning here, could you rephrase that? Normally I have no problems understanding english, but this "language" I didnt use very often.

To JSH:
Ok, thought of some touching myself (no comments as to the other meaning of this sentence ;) and I will try that with her.
As to the not giving what she wants...What exactly do you mean by this? I can't think of anything she could possibly want, that I could deny her, but my attention, and THAT I must give her, if we go out together...

-Christian
I was inferring as a joke that she took it in front of you to demonstrate the beleif that she thought she was going to be raped. Calm down ;)

Anyways, if you think she's interested go for it. If you don't, then don't. If you loose her over that she wasn't worht it anyways :)
 

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Ok, now I understand...The way you meant it was how I understood it at first, but after rereading it several times I wasn't sure anymore.

As to the girl:
I will completely ignore her from now on, and wait what she does.

It's just that...uuuhm....I'd really like to lay her ;I

-Christian
 

Smooth as Anything

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We all beleive ourselves anyway, and we're all idiots.

:)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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