Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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blueangel83

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Hello,

I've been reading posts here from time to time until I searched someone's name (I always do on google :D) that I found a few men that I know in real life who post on this board.

I am also a member of several boards but they don't like me there because I always have a different opinion on things. So I thought I might finally register here and see if you could give me some tips on dating. Have a pleasant day!

Meg
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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manuva

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Originally posted by MacAvoy
Well be ready for the "just spread your legs for him hunny" advice that your likely to receive here.
Which, lets face it, actually would solve a lot of problems for most people. :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by blueangel83
Hello,

I've been reading posts here from time to time until I searched someone's name (I always do on google :D) that I found a few men that I know in real life who post on this board.

I know this question comes up a lot and most times the guys just try and answer it.... How do you feel now about this guy that you found here and you know?
 

Smooth Player 056

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If you want tips on dating why dont u go to a chick site....with chick advice.....

You also say you have been on other forums but they get mad at you because you disagree with their advice.....If this is true your advice most likely is not DJ oriented but AFC oriented...


Smooth Player 056
 

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Welcome to the site -
There are a lot of closed minded "woman advice hating" guys here so be wary. You'll figure out after about a month or so who to take advice from and who is blowing hot air. . .
Wyldfire is awesome - she's the head bytch here :D and one of the few women who have stayed around and put up w/ us. Penkitten is also pretty slick - that's all i can think of off the top of my head.
Enjoy your stay

BTW - checked out your "Myspace" thing and you're cute. PM me if you have MSN. (HA! look at that - picking up on ss.com :D)
 

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welcome, please put on your flame suit.
 

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how did u find them on google.........because i would like to do the same
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Centaurion

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what the **** is this place turning into?

Cant you find a bytch dating site?
 

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I found this site by googling my own name... turns out some guy here has the same name as me.
 

Page

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Originally posted by syncmaster
Welcome to the site -
There are a lot of closed minded "woman advice hating" guys here so be wary. You'll figure out after about a month or so who to take advice from and who is blowing hot air. . .
Wyldfire is awesome - she's the head bytch here :D and one of the few women who have stayed around and put up w/ us. Penkitten is also pretty slick - that's all i can think of off the top of my head.
Enjoy your stay

BTW - checked out your "Myspace" thing and you're cute. PM me if you have MSN. (HA! look at that - picking up on ss.com :D)
Hey Sync, long time no see. How have you been?
 

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Unbelieveable... 14 replies, 241 views on a girl posting here.

Some of you guys need girlfriends! :cheer:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
The irony of your post is thick enough to stab with a fork.
Unlike you, I'm not making a big deal out of it.

Are you really unhappy with life? Do you need a hug?
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
If you guys don't like women getting links to this site then perhaps you all should work together to self-police better. Every time one of the radicals call me a cvnt, call my 5 year old a b@stard or anything similar I'm posting links to this forum on 3 women's forums. This time I was nice and didn't post links on radical feminist forums. I might not be so nice next time.

Mine is the WRONG tampon string to pull on...
Wyldfire, are you suggesting that you have or that you are going to try to sabotage this site?
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
No and no. And don't try to step up to me just because I caught you being a hypocrite.
I don't care if there is a female posting here. Everyone else is making a big fuss about it.. I'm juss pointing it out. You don't need to point fingers like something bad happened.

Step up to you? This is the internet.

Oooooh, AC/DC wants the new chicky to IM him so he can try to seduce her online.
Yeah baby, come give me some love!
 

MetalFortress

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Originally posted by AC/DC
I don't care if there is a female posting here. Everyone else is making a big fuss about it.. I'm juss pointing it out. You don't need to point fingers like something bad happened.

Step up to you? This is the internet.
Quit lying. You pointed out the number of views to the thread, and the number of replies, and then used that as a basis to your point, while you yourself are adding views and replies. Stop backpedaling.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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