"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hello,

I've been reading posts here from time to time until I searched someone's name (I always do on google :D) that I found a few men that I know in real life who post on this board.

I am also a member of several boards but they don't like me there because I always have a different opinion on things. So I thought I might finally register here and see if you could give me some tips on dating. Have a pleasant day!

Meg
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by MacAvoy
Well be ready for the "just spread your legs for him hunny" advice that your likely to receive here.
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Which, lets face it, actually would solve a lot of problems for most people. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by blueangel83
Hello,

I've been reading posts here from time to time until I searched someone's name (I always do on google :D) that I found a few men that I know in real life who post on this board.
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I know this question comes up a lot and most times the guys just try and answer it.... How do you feel now about this guy that you found here and you know?
 
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If you want tips on dating why dont u go to a chick site....with chick advice.....

You also say you have been on other forums but they get mad at you because you disagree with their advice.....If this is true your advice most likely is not DJ oriented but AFC oriented...


Smooth Player 056
 
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Welcome to the site -
There are a lot of closed minded "woman advice hating" guys here so be wary. You'll figure out after about a month or so who to take advice from and who is blowing hot air. . .
Wyldfire is awesome - she's the head bytch here :D and one of the few women who have stayed around and put up w/ us. Penkitten is also pretty slick - that's all i can think of off the top of my head.
Enjoy your stay

BTW - checked out your "Myspace" thing and you're cute. PM me if you have MSN. (HA! look at that - picking up on ss.com :D)
 
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welcome, please put on your flame suit.
 
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how did u find them on google.........because i would like to do the same
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what the **** is this place turning into?

Cant you find a bytch dating site?
 
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I found this site by googling my own name... turns out some guy here has the same name as me.
 
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Originally posted by syncmaster
Welcome to the site -
There are a lot of closed minded "woman advice hating" guys here so be wary. You'll figure out after about a month or so who to take advice from and who is blowing hot air. . .
Wyldfire is awesome - she's the head bytch here :D and one of the few women who have stayed around and put up w/ us. Penkitten is also pretty slick - that's all i can think of off the top of my head.
Enjoy your stay

BTW - checked out your "Myspace" thing and you're cute. PM me if you have MSN. (HA! look at that - picking up on ss.com :D)
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Hey Sync, long time no see. How have you been?
 
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Unbelieveable... 14 replies, 241 views on a girl posting here.

Some of you guys need girlfriends! :cheer:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
The irony of your post is thick enough to stab with a fork.
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Unlike you, I'm not making a big deal out of it.

Are you really unhappy with life? Do you need a hug?
 
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Originally posted by Wyldfire
If you guys don't like women getting links to this site then perhaps you all should work together to self-police better. Every time one of the radicals call me a cvnt, call my 5 year old a b@stard or anything similar I'm posting links to this forum on 3 women's forums. This time I was nice and didn't post links on radical feminist forums. I might not be so nice next time.

Mine is the WRONG tampon string to pull on...
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Wyldfire, are you suggesting that you have or that you are going to try to sabotage this site?
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
No and no. And don't try to step up to me just because I caught you being a hypocrite.
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I don't care if there is a female posting here. Everyone else is making a big fuss about it.. I'm juss pointing it out. You don't need to point fingers like something bad happened.

Step up to you? This is the internet.

Oooooh, AC/DC wants the new chicky to IM him so he can try to seduce her online.
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Yeah baby, come give me some love!
 
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Originally posted by AC/DC
I don't care if there is a female posting here. Everyone else is making a big fuss about it.. I'm juss pointing it out. You don't need to point fingers like something bad happened.

Step up to you? This is the internet.
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Quit lying. You pointed out the number of views to the thread, and the number of replies, and then used that as a basis to your point, while you yourself are adding views and replies. Stop backpedaling.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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