"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hey I'm new and already have a question...

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El Duderino

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I'm still very new to the whole Don Juan thing and I spent my first three years of high school pretty much just being timid in front of people I didn't know and never approached an unfamiliar girl to initiate conversation or even get her number...I've made it my new years resolution to change everything because this is my last year to salvage at least something good from high school...I found this site and have been reading all the articles carefully

today I decided to try out my luck...I approached a girl in one of my classes who I had been admiring from afar since September...she was wearing one of those custom jerseys that have your name on the back, and coincidentally her name is foreign so I asked her how to pronounce it as a way of making conversation...I was smiling, and I tried to make eye contact the whole time but she never looked directly at me once, barely even turning her head...she answered, and after I told her its a pretty name she didn't even look at me and passed by...it was all pretty awkward but she seems like an ice queen

what the hell do I do now? move on to other girls or try again with her? I don't want to come off as annoying :confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MVPlaya

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Take the hint. She's not interested. But good job for making an attempt. By the way, don't ever "admire a girl from afar." This is stalkerish and gets you nowhere.
 
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Need-2-B-Pimpin

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Yeah man, good effort, good courage. Now ya gotta fine-tune your approach, etc. Read into some of Sammo's self-improvement stuff
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LikRetsam

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Originally posted by Zendryn
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I agree. Easier said then done at your stage but... The only cure is more chicks!
 
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