"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey I'm new and already have a question...

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El Duderino

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I'm still very new to the whole Don Juan thing and I spent my first three years of high school pretty much just being timid in front of people I didn't know and never approached an unfamiliar girl to initiate conversation or even get her number...I've made it my new years resolution to change everything because this is my last year to salvage at least something good from high school...I found this site and have been reading all the articles carefully

today I decided to try out my luck...I approached a girl in one of my classes who I had been admiring from afar since September...she was wearing one of those custom jerseys that have your name on the back, and coincidentally her name is foreign so I asked her how to pronounce it as a way of making conversation...I was smiling, and I tried to make eye contact the whole time but she never looked directly at me once, barely even turning her head...she answered, and after I told her its a pretty name she didn't even look at me and passed by...it was all pretty awkward but she seems like an ice queen

what the hell do I do now? move on to other girls or try again with her? I don't want to come off as annoying :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MVPlaya

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Take the hint. She's not interested. But good job for making an attempt. By the way, don't ever "admire a girl from afar." This is stalkerish and gets you nowhere.
 
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Need-2-B-Pimpin

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Yeah man, good effort, good courage. Now ya gotta fine-tune your approach, etc. Read into some of Sammo's self-improvement stuff
 
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NEXT!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LikRetsam

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Originally posted by Zendryn
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I agree. Easier said then done at your stage but... The only cure is more chicks!
 
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