Only 2 to 3 posters here understands the situation and have rightly advised you OP.
The rest = The blind is leading the blind.
I'll just add in, for ur future references, the next time when a woman suggests or deviates from ur original plan for the night, stick with ur plans but be diplomatic abt it by agreeing to do it the next time out and just simply tell her that you much prefer to spend tonight at so and so.
You're not exactly saying no and yet still get to do exactly as you want.
The rest = The blind is leading the blind.
I'll just add in, for ur future references, the next time when a woman suggests or deviates from ur original plan for the night, stick with ur plans but be diplomatic abt it by agreeing to do it the next time out and just simply tell her that you much prefer to spend tonight at so and so.
You're not exactly saying no and yet still get to do exactly as you want.