This message from a girl I know. But I only just got her number again the other night. She texted me the next day asking that. I didn't reply cause I thought it was a stupid question or just her way of seeing how desperate I might be to talk to her? Would you ignore this or text her the next day sayin you were busy or just wait until the weekend to invite her out (which is my plan - unless she invites me first lol)
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"Hey do you know much about nintendo wii?" Text - to bother responding?
- Thread starter LoneWolf
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Just answer her. You are over analyzing. No one is THAT busy that they can't answer a simple question.
To be honest I was busy at the time and couldn't be fuked replying to a stupid question like that. I know she'd start asking question after question if I replied. Sometimes Im just not in the mood. It would of turned into a chat over text. I'm seriously just going to reply later and try to arrange a meet up for the following day.
Also I thought why not just ignore her for the one night, let her think about me until I reply
Also I thought why not just ignore her for the one night, let her think about me until I reply
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Are you trying to get with this girl or is she just an annoying friend? Her mentioning something like this might be her way of reaching out and getting you 2 to hang out. Girls will usually not overtly ask someone else, she might be trying to use this Wii topic to get you over. I'd reply and see where it goes.LoneWolf said:To be honest I was busy at the time and couldn't be fuked replying to a stupid question like that. I know she'd start asking question after question if I replied. Sometimes Im just not in the mood. It would of turned into a chat over text. I'm seriously just going to reply later and try to arrange a meet up for the following day.
Also I thought why not just ignore her for the one night, let her think about me until I reply
Ask her if she likes Zelda. If she says yes, you should marry her. Love me some nerdy girls... As long as they're cute.
She might be just acting friendly, or doesn't know how to flirt, or is asking a basic question. Who knows. Her Wii could be acting up. Not everything has a secret meaning behind it. "ZOMG SHE WANTS SEX!!"
She might be just acting friendly, or doesn't know how to flirt, or is asking a basic question. Who knows. Her Wii could be acting up. Not everything has a secret meaning behind it. "ZOMG SHE WANTS SEX!!"
I dunno I was just trying to teach her a lesson I guess.. she's fairly good looking, has huge tits. I don't want to act like every other guy and reply too soon and eagerly.. I know this girl but not that much. Just wanna take it slower and make her chase me a bit for once. I just replied saying "Nope, sorry " she replied straight away with "Yeah its a bit late. I sent you that last night. N u?" I replied "And me what?" then she just replies "Lol " < wtf
lol now a different girl just text me "Hey you have been quiet last few days, hope ur well" but shes not as hot.
I seriously just wanna turn it around and make them chase me. Hate chasing them especially through texting like a dog waiting for them to reply. Thats why im trying to minimize my replies and small talk. Should just set up a date for weekend and leave it that way.
" she replied straight away with "Yeah its a bit late. I sent you that last night. N u?" I replied "And me what?" then she just replies "Lol " < wtflol now a different girl just text me "Hey you have been quiet last few days, hope ur well
" but shes not as hot.I seriously just wanna turn it around and make them chase me. Hate chasing them especially through texting like a dog waiting for them to reply. Thats why im trying to minimize my replies and small talk. Should just set up a date for weekend and leave it that way.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.