This message from a girl I know. But I only just got her number again the other night. She texted me the next day asking that. I didn't reply cause I thought it was a stupid question or just her way of seeing how desperate I might be to talk to her? Would you ignore this or text her the next day sayin you were busy or just wait until the weekend to invite her out (which is my plan - unless she invites me first lol)
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"Hey do you know much about nintendo wii?" Text - to bother responding?
- Thread starter LoneWolf
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Just answer her. You are over analyzing. No one is THAT busy that they can't answer a simple question.
To be honest I was busy at the time and couldn't be fuked replying to a stupid question like that. I know she'd start asking question after question if I replied. Sometimes Im just not in the mood. It would of turned into a chat over text. I'm seriously just going to reply later and try to arrange a meet up for the following day.
Also I thought why not just ignore her for the one night, let her think about me until I reply
Also I thought why not just ignore her for the one night, let her think about me until I reply
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Are you trying to get with this girl or is she just an annoying friend? Her mentioning something like this might be her way of reaching out and getting you 2 to hang out. Girls will usually not overtly ask someone else, she might be trying to use this Wii topic to get you over. I'd reply and see where it goes.LoneWolf said:To be honest I was busy at the time and couldn't be fuked replying to a stupid question like that. I know she'd start asking question after question if I replied. Sometimes Im just not in the mood. It would of turned into a chat over text. I'm seriously just going to reply later and try to arrange a meet up for the following day.
Also I thought why not just ignore her for the one night, let her think about me until I reply
Ask her if she likes Zelda. If she says yes, you should marry her. Love me some nerdy girls... As long as they're cute.
She might be just acting friendly, or doesn't know how to flirt, or is asking a basic question. Who knows. Her Wii could be acting up. Not everything has a secret meaning behind it. "ZOMG SHE WANTS SEX!!"
She might be just acting friendly, or doesn't know how to flirt, or is asking a basic question. Who knows. Her Wii could be acting up. Not everything has a secret meaning behind it. "ZOMG SHE WANTS SEX!!"
I dunno I was just trying to teach her a lesson I guess.. she's fairly good looking, has huge tits. I don't want to act like every other guy and reply too soon and eagerly.. I know this girl but not that much. Just wanna take it slower and make her chase me a bit for once. I just replied saying "Nope, sorry " she replied straight away with "Yeah its a bit late. I sent you that last night. N u?" I replied "And me what?" then she just replies "Lol " < wtf
lol now a different girl just text me "Hey you have been quiet last few days, hope ur well" but shes not as hot.
I seriously just wanna turn it around and make them chase me. Hate chasing them especially through texting like a dog waiting for them to reply. Thats why im trying to minimize my replies and small talk. Should just set up a date for weekend and leave it that way.
" she replied straight away with "Yeah its a bit late. I sent you that last night. N u?" I replied "And me what?" then she just replies "Lol " < wtflol now a different girl just text me "Hey you have been quiet last few days, hope ur well
" but shes not as hot.I seriously just wanna turn it around and make them chase me. Hate chasing them especially through texting like a dog waiting for them to reply. Thats why im trying to minimize my replies and small talk. Should just set up a date for weekend and leave it that way.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.