This message from a girl I know. But I only just got her number again the other night. She texted me the next day asking that. I didn't reply cause I thought it was a stupid question or just her way of seeing how desperate I might be to talk to her? Would you ignore this or text her the next day sayin you were busy or just wait until the weekend to invite her out (which is my plan - unless she invites me first lol)
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"Hey do you know much about nintendo wii?" Text - to bother responding?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Just answer her. You are over analyzing. No one is THAT busy that they can't answer a simple question.
To be honest I was busy at the time and couldn't be fuked replying to a stupid question like that. I know she'd start asking question after question if I replied. Sometimes Im just not in the mood. It would of turned into a chat over text. I'm seriously just going to reply later and try to arrange a meet up for the following day.
Also I thought why not just ignore her for the one night, let her think about me until I reply
Also I thought why not just ignore her for the one night, let her think about me until I reply
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Are you trying to get with this girl or is she just an annoying friend? Her mentioning something like this might be her way of reaching out and getting you 2 to hang out. Girls will usually not overtly ask someone else, she might be trying to use this Wii topic to get you over. I'd reply and see where it goes.LoneWolf said:To be honest I was busy at the time and couldn't be fuked replying to a stupid question like that. I know she'd start asking question after question if I replied. Sometimes Im just not in the mood. It would of turned into a chat over text. I'm seriously just going to reply later and try to arrange a meet up for the following day.
Also I thought why not just ignore her for the one night, let her think about me until I reply
Ask her if she likes Zelda. If she says yes, you should marry her. Love me some nerdy girls... As long as they're cute.
She might be just acting friendly, or doesn't know how to flirt, or is asking a basic question. Who knows. Her Wii could be acting up. Not everything has a secret meaning behind it. "ZOMG SHE WANTS SEX!!"
She might be just acting friendly, or doesn't know how to flirt, or is asking a basic question. Who knows. Her Wii could be acting up. Not everything has a secret meaning behind it. "ZOMG SHE WANTS SEX!!"
I dunno I was just trying to teach her a lesson I guess.. she's fairly good looking, has huge tits. I don't want to act like every other guy and reply too soon and eagerly.. I know this girl but not that much. Just wanna take it slower and make her chase me a bit for once. I just replied saying "Nope, sorry " she replied straight away with "Yeah its a bit late. I sent you that last night. N u?" I replied "And me what?" then she just replies "Lol " < wtf
lol now a different girl just text me "Hey you have been quiet last few days, hope ur well" but shes not as hot.
I seriously just wanna turn it around and make them chase me. Hate chasing them especially through texting like a dog waiting for them to reply. Thats why im trying to minimize my replies and small talk. Should just set up a date for weekend and leave it that way.
" she replied straight away with "Yeah its a bit late. I sent you that last night. N u?" I replied "And me what?" then she just replies "Lol " < wtflol now a different girl just text me "Hey you have been quiet last few days, hope ur well
" but shes not as hot.I seriously just wanna turn it around and make them chase me. Hate chasing them especially through texting like a dog waiting for them to reply. Thats why im trying to minimize my replies and small talk. Should just set up a date for weekend and leave it that way.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.