This message from a girl I know. But I only just got her number again the other night. She texted me the next day asking that. I didn't reply cause I thought it was a stupid question or just her way of seeing how desperate I might be to talk to her? Would you ignore this or text her the next day sayin you were busy or just wait until the weekend to invite her out (which is my plan - unless she invites me first lol)
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"Hey do you know much about nintendo wii?" Text - to bother responding?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Just answer her. You are over analyzing. No one is THAT busy that they can't answer a simple question.
To be honest I was busy at the time and couldn't be fuked replying to a stupid question like that. I know she'd start asking question after question if I replied. Sometimes Im just not in the mood. It would of turned into a chat over text. I'm seriously just going to reply later and try to arrange a meet up for the following day.
Also I thought why not just ignore her for the one night, let her think about me until I reply
Also I thought why not just ignore her for the one night, let her think about me until I reply
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Are you trying to get with this girl or is she just an annoying friend? Her mentioning something like this might be her way of reaching out and getting you 2 to hang out. Girls will usually not overtly ask someone else, she might be trying to use this Wii topic to get you over. I'd reply and see where it goes.LoneWolf said:To be honest I was busy at the time and couldn't be fuked replying to a stupid question like that. I know she'd start asking question after question if I replied. Sometimes Im just not in the mood. It would of turned into a chat over text. I'm seriously just going to reply later and try to arrange a meet up for the following day.
Also I thought why not just ignore her for the one night, let her think about me until I reply
Ask her if she likes Zelda. If she says yes, you should marry her. Love me some nerdy girls... As long as they're cute.
She might be just acting friendly, or doesn't know how to flirt, or is asking a basic question. Who knows. Her Wii could be acting up. Not everything has a secret meaning behind it. "ZOMG SHE WANTS SEX!!"
She might be just acting friendly, or doesn't know how to flirt, or is asking a basic question. Who knows. Her Wii could be acting up. Not everything has a secret meaning behind it. "ZOMG SHE WANTS SEX!!"
I dunno I was just trying to teach her a lesson I guess.. she's fairly good looking, has huge tits. I don't want to act like every other guy and reply too soon and eagerly.. I know this girl but not that much. Just wanna take it slower and make her chase me a bit for once. I just replied saying "Nope, sorry " she replied straight away with "Yeah its a bit late. I sent you that last night. N u?" I replied "And me what?" then she just replies "Lol " < wtf
lol now a different girl just text me "Hey you have been quiet last few days, hope ur well" but shes not as hot.
I seriously just wanna turn it around and make them chase me. Hate chasing them especially through texting like a dog waiting for them to reply. Thats why im trying to minimize my replies and small talk. Should just set up a date for weekend and leave it that way.
" she replied straight away with "Yeah its a bit late. I sent you that last night. N u?" I replied "And me what?" then she just replies "Lol " < wtflol now a different girl just text me "Hey you have been quiet last few days, hope ur well
" but shes not as hot.I seriously just wanna turn it around and make them chase me. Hate chasing them especially through texting like a dog waiting for them to reply. Thats why im trying to minimize my replies and small talk. Should just set up a date for weekend and leave it that way.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.