"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey cripple, how's your arm going?

WhitePimp

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I think you played it right. If a girl's actions cause me to lose interest in her, then why bother even replying and continuing a conversation I don't even care about having? If it was a girl I was actively conversing with then that's where I'd throw in some humor, but this is just a nobody who's bored and wants male attention
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zarky

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samspade said:
Females who pour on the sarcasm and wisecracks are gross.
I soooooooo agree with this. As Roissy says, sarcasm is unfeminine. A woman who busts on me is instant limp-d!ck for me. My male friends and I bust on one another, women who do it creep me out.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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Wait til your arm heals, then shove it up her ass.
 

seagull

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Falcon25 said:
Stop being so sensitive. She was just joking. I would have told her that I was going to break this cast over her head or something. She's a nobody. But you are very sensitive. Change that.
I don't think he was being sensitive, just pointing out the girl's lack of class (which is very common among Australian women who are not very feminine at all). I generally wouldn't make a joke like that with someone who I barely knew.
 

L B

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It's just a joke, don't take it personal.

Either way, don't reply to her. She made it clear that you're her second choice, so why bother wasting time thinking about it. Good job deleting her from your life.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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