Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
There are different circumstances. Girl online is different from boy online. Men usually live online, months on end. Women go online to get a new bf when old bf has expired. After they get new bf they don't hang online until time comes to switch again.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
My point is that most interactions are disposable due to low investment, minimal effort, and no commitment required to start or leave a conversation. The low success rate is a direct result of this.
well.. no.
^^Cheeky, I'm curious how well this works for you? How do the women typically respond?
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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
There was a popular member here years back who wouid ask this. It was on POF. He's still here under a different username but anyway...
That guy was me. Nowadays I ask “what are you open for on here?” I find the word “open” less interrogating than “looking”. Some women take offense when you assume they are looking for anything. But they are more receptive to a conversation when you ask them what they are “open” for.
well SG… it ebbs and flows. It can be frustrating.
A women who agrees to that right off the bat is for recreational use only and cannot be anything long-term...but many guys are unable to create that boundary and give her a relationship she has automatically disqualified herself from.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This is why you never ask “what are you looking for?” and ask “what are you open to?”. Most women are looking for Superman/Captain save a h… but the same women are also OPEN to recording youporn videos.
Our society has gotten so fixated on "safety" over the last decade, women(ESPECIALLY young women)are hungry for "the dark masculine"
I would say nature always overrides whatever social conditioning women go through.
I never really do that, personally.
Yeah, while MAINSTREAM social conditioning has been promoting "safety", life underneath the surface life remains as it always has... By time '17 rolled around, our cultural climate was such that no major Hollywood studio would've greenlit a 50SOG-type adaptation, yet Netflix produced the 365 Days franchise, and those became the most watched productions in the history of that streaming service
