"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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here's the secret

blueline

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be a little bit prettier than the girls you get into relationships with.

that's the secret to relationships with all other things including assumed decent game considered. you cannot be a fat and keep even a 7 unless you have some other factor like money and social status to intervene. however, she's always going to be wanting to get ****ed by that jacked guy, so you won't give her everything she wants, therefore she'll probably cheat.

if you want to just **** a bunch of girls, it always helps to be just a bit better looking than them. however, given the different definition of success in this pursuit, this is where the ugly can definitely succeed with girls physically out of his league. good luck keeping her with simply game, though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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be prettier than the girl? you know what, you go ahead and enjoy your own sub par advice, and the sub par life style that it will bring to you. maybe one day you'll stop thinking like a freakin woman.
Everybody likes to give advice and **** these days, even guys that don't got their **** together.
 

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terran2k said:
be prettier than the girl? you know what, you go ahead and enjoy your own sub par advice, and the sub par life style that it will bring to you. maybe one day you'll stop thinking like a freakin woman.
Everybody likes to give advice and **** these days, even guys that don't got their **** together.
:woo: :woo:

+1
 

HolyG

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terran2k said:
be prettier than the girl? you know what, you go ahead and enjoy your own sub par advice, and the sub par life style that it will bring to you. maybe one day you'll stop thinking like a freakin woman.
Everybody likes to give advice and **** these days, even guys that don't got their **** together.
:flowers:

Let me buy you a beer
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ummm... John Hamm is an exceedingly attractive man. If you're 5'6 and look like Pee Wee Herman you're probably not going to be able to put that one off. Imagine Paul Reubens in that scene.

I agree with the OP. Date down, if you want to have some good times. If you date up, you will be paying through the nose and doing all the work.

Best yet, find a chick who looks ok but has super low self esteem.
 
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