"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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blueline

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be a little bit prettier than the girls you get into relationships with.

that's the secret to relationships with all other things including assumed decent game considered. you cannot be a fat and keep even a 7 unless you have some other factor like money and social status to intervene. however, she's always going to be wanting to get ****ed by that jacked guy, so you won't give her everything she wants, therefore she'll probably cheat.

if you want to just **** a bunch of girls, it always helps to be just a bit better looking than them. however, given the different definition of success in this pursuit, this is where the ugly can definitely succeed with girls physically out of his league. good luck keeping her with simply game, though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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be prettier than the girl? you know what, you go ahead and enjoy your own sub par advice, and the sub par life style that it will bring to you. maybe one day you'll stop thinking like a freakin woman.
Everybody likes to give advice and **** these days, even guys that don't got their **** together.
 

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terran2k said:
be prettier than the girl? you know what, you go ahead and enjoy your own sub par advice, and the sub par life style that it will bring to you. maybe one day you'll stop thinking like a freakin woman.
Everybody likes to give advice and **** these days, even guys that don't got their **** together.
:woo: :woo:

+1
 

HolyG

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terran2k said:
be prettier than the girl? you know what, you go ahead and enjoy your own sub par advice, and the sub par life style that it will bring to you. maybe one day you'll stop thinking like a freakin woman.
Everybody likes to give advice and **** these days, even guys that don't got their **** together.
:flowers:

Let me buy you a beer
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ummm... John Hamm is an exceedingly attractive man. If you're 5'6 and look like Pee Wee Herman you're probably not going to be able to put that one off. Imagine Paul Reubens in that scene.

I agree with the OP. Date down, if you want to have some good times. If you date up, you will be paying through the nose and doing all the work.

Best yet, find a chick who looks ok but has super low self esteem.
 
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