"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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blueline

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be a little bit prettier than the girls you get into relationships with.

that's the secret to relationships with all other things including assumed decent game considered. you cannot be a fat and keep even a 7 unless you have some other factor like money and social status to intervene. however, she's always going to be wanting to get ****ed by that jacked guy, so you won't give her everything she wants, therefore she'll probably cheat.

if you want to just **** a bunch of girls, it always helps to be just a bit better looking than them. however, given the different definition of success in this pursuit, this is where the ugly can definitely succeed with girls physically out of his league. good luck keeping her with simply game, though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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be prettier than the girl? you know what, you go ahead and enjoy your own sub par advice, and the sub par life style that it will bring to you. maybe one day you'll stop thinking like a freakin woman.
Everybody likes to give advice and **** these days, even guys that don't got their **** together.
 

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terran2k said:
be prettier than the girl? you know what, you go ahead and enjoy your own sub par advice, and the sub par life style that it will bring to you. maybe one day you'll stop thinking like a freakin woman.
Everybody likes to give advice and **** these days, even guys that don't got their **** together.
:woo: :woo:

+1
 

HolyG

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terran2k said:
be prettier than the girl? you know what, you go ahead and enjoy your own sub par advice, and the sub par life style that it will bring to you. maybe one day you'll stop thinking like a freakin woman.
Everybody likes to give advice and **** these days, even guys that don't got their **** together.
:flowers:

Let me buy you a beer
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ummm... John Hamm is an exceedingly attractive man. If you're 5'6 and look like Pee Wee Herman you're probably not going to be able to put that one off. Imagine Paul Reubens in that scene.

I agree with the OP. Date down, if you want to have some good times. If you date up, you will be paying through the nose and doing all the work.

Best yet, find a chick who looks ok but has super low self esteem.
 
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